其实但凡女子都有一种心理。有过早教经验的人都知道，3岁大左右的小孩其实不需要什么别的特殊关照，他们最希望也是最害怕得不到的就是别人对他们的关注。一旦得到，他们实际上也不需要什么别的照顾了。所以很多事情，真的都是和天性有关。

There is a commen trait amongst women. Those who have educated infants would know, that when a child was at 3-year-old round, what they thirsted for and feared most not to have was the attention from others. And beyond that, to say once they have had it, they need basically nothing else. So there is really a realm of things pertaining to human nature.