冬天的夜晚，划一根火柴，彼此间就够圆满的了；而在火灾现场，不论升多少把火人们都不会再有感觉。烂漫的星空只有在炙热的太阳离去之后才会呈现。男女之间亦如是。

In winter at night, a single lighted match would be enough romantic for each other; But on the scene of a fire, people won’t feel it any more no matter how many more fires would have been rised; And the brilliant starry sky only appears in the absence of a hot sun.  All the same are true for affairs between men and women.